So many times in my work, I have heard people ask me why they feel they are “kicked when they are down.” It does seem that sometimes one negative thing begets another and soon we feel that life has spiralled out of control. I seem to encounter a new round of challenges every time I increase my light. Instead of looking at it as a struggle, I know these are simply opportunities for me to stay in my light or slide back into old energies that aren’t going to make me happy. In the past I would wonder “What I had done wrong,” instead of just dealing with things, learning, and moving forward into more positive energy. 

I just did another series of live stream gaze with Braco and reached incredible spaces of Oneness. Immediately I had a number of things break down! Problems that were lurking all came to the surface to be fixed! A small crack that I had not noticed in my car windshield became so large I had to have the entire thing replaced! (I am seeing more clearly now!). My hot water heater started leaking and happily it was under warrantee so I got a brand new one. (I’m no longer leaking energy!). A “flow switch” in some pool equipment out back broke and is getting replaced! (I’m standing in a greater flow of energy!) The hinges on my computer armoire broke and the doors swung open (I am letting the world see more of me!). And while I could go on, the moral of the story is that life is not against me. I didn’t do anything “wrong.” I simpy created things in one vibration in my past and now that I’m in a different energy things must change. Far better to celebrate this than to feel as if all “you-know-what” is breaking loose! Sometimes we change and life must change around us.

There are so many opportunities to focus on what is “wrong.” Small irritations can add up, and difficult life circumstances or losses can feel like they are burying us. We can’t always see how we will get from where we are to where we want to be. But there is always goodness, and sometimes, although it is tough and an act of will, we must love ourselves first in our annoyances, sadnesses, or upsets, then cheer ourselves up by focusing on all the things that are right. By loving ourselves first as we are, then by shifting our focus, we shift our lives into greater love.

So this week try to catch yourself when you are struggling with life and stop struggling. See if you can stop the inner drama that the mind loves to create. Deal with the situation as best you can. Honor your feelings, ask for help, comfort, healing or whateveyou need in the moment. Love yourself first as you are, then when you can use your will power to focus on something, anything good. See how it affects how you feel!

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