The last few lines of the angel message had me howling! I have a few rapping/rhyming angels that work with me. It cracks me up. I get “rhymes all the time” when I’m plugged in 🙂
Back to the point of their message, one of the things I love most about my job is seeing people who, like me, were raised to be “Reactors” pop into the paradigm of being a “Creator” and make their own miracles.
Just last week I talked to a very dear client. Deb has been working diligently the last few years to choose her own thoughts, feel her own feelings, and create her own reality. She has worked hard to master her vibration and it led to a brilliant manifestation.
She and her husband had put love, sweat, tears, and a lot of money into a fixer-upper vacation home, and knew it was time to sell. The realtor didn’t think they could get anywhere near their asking price. In fact, she didn’t even like the house! Obviously, this wasn’t such a great formula for a good sale if you look at it from the old “reactor” paradigm.
That didn’t stop Deb. She put all her love in that house. She blessed the house, thanked it for the good memories, imagined someone else loving it and paying the price she wanted. She decided that was going to happen. The realtor, a very good person, was reacting to the market in that particular area, but Deb was creating from the inside out. She continued to emanate such a high, confident, positive vibe, despite every external obstacle that came her way, that the realtor got drawn right into it! The realtor went along with her request to play up the good points of the house, rather than apologizing for the things she perceived her clients wouldn’t like. They staged the house beautifully. They imagined it filled with light. You know the end of this story. Wonderful people, who paid the price she wanted, bought the house in a timely fashion! Great Vibe = Great results!
Another woman I know and love had to sell a house last year. She imagined a very realistic price, but she was such an angel – almost always in a loving, kind, high vibe, that the house sold for a lot more than she asked.
I know people who manifested a loving partner in the middle of covid, not because they were scouring the dating sites or out running around looking but because they developed a loving internal relationship. One dear lady decided God was going to be the love of her life and while feeling the bliss of being in love with God, she met another man who was too, and now they’re in love with each other!
I’ve seen people manifest money in crazy ways too, not because they desperately focused on what they needed (reacting), but rather because they chose to look at what they had as abundant, with appreciation. They know how to vibrate abundantly by choosing to think abundant thoughts. One man that I’ve worked with over the years, did well but always had a little fear of not doing well. Understandably like most of us, he learned to react. When jobs were coming in, he felt abundant. When they were not, he felt fearful. We worked on this and it clicked. He started to give thanks for all he had and started to really appreciate and enjoy his life. Guess what? You guessed it! Jobs started streaming in. He had practiced the vibration of abundance so thoroughly that he developed great confidence and even started to turn away jobs that didn’t feel fun! He became a creator, not a reactor.
So this stuff may sound airy-fairy, but it works. How can just feeling good and emanating love change your finances, help you navigate supply chain issues, financial insanity, political insanity, and so much more? How can feeling good help you stay up even when people judge you and criticize your choices? How can enjoying a movie make room in your mind, for an idea that guides you to a new job? How can focusing on the beauty of life cause your aching body to instantly feel better? In a 3D reactor paradigm, this sounds like insanity which is why most of us have a lot of resistance to learning the new way of being.
In the 5D creator paradigm, feeling good is an indicator of being in a high vibe, and in a high vibe, you are a vibrational match to all the love that the heavens always want to pour into your life.
Here are a few pointers on how to be a creator, not a reactor…
1. Catch yourself reacting then Stop/Switch
We’re conditioned to react. We’ve done it for decades. So don’t beat yourself up when you do it. Just catch yourself. When you feel your mood changing due to an external circumstance, and you don’t like the way you feel, say to yourself:
“Stop! Shift! I get to choose my focus. I get to choose my feelings. I get to choose my vibe!” Then, focus on anything that feels better as quickly as you can. Recall a wonderful memory. Daydream of something sweet. Look around for something beautiful or pleasing. Give thanks for someone you adore. Think of happy puppies or smiling babies, or in my case, the smell of fresh pesto or the taste of stone ground dark chocolate… Stop and Shift.
When I started doing this I had to stop/shift a thousand times a day. I would turn my thoughts to a better direction and my mind would turn back, and I’d turn my thoughts upward, then my mind would turn downward. Stop/Shift. Stop/Shift. Stop/shift…. ah!!! The shift finally sticks and you feel SO good. LIfe starts working again! Don’t give up on yourself. Practice makes it so much easier.
Here’s my rap angel again interrupting my writing with some of his wondrous wording:
Practicing the “Shift” is so much better
than experiencing a word with one less letter!
Hilarious!
2. Have some “Instant Uppers” available
When we start reacting and we want to raise our vibe we can’t always go straight from irritation to joy, problem to solution, etc., but we can always think of something better. It is SO useful to have some “Instant uppers” in your arsenal of spiritual tools – thoughts that feel amazing, things that delight, quotes that inspire, music that uplifts, drives that feel amazing, etc. You get the idea – any thought or thing that can instantly uplift you.
Some of my Instant Uppers, in no particular order, are:
•Thoughts of God’s love
•Thoughts of beautiful places in nature, esp standing knee-deep in the creek
• Autumn leaves
• Homemade Trader Joe’s Gluten-free pumpkin muffins
(I overbuy and hoard this mix every year – amazing with extra spice!)
• Beautiful quotes
• Robin MIller’s song “Dancing with Angels”
• Gazing
• The smell of night-blooming jasmine or citrus blossoms
• Laughing babies on youtube
• Remembering the time my spaghetti sauce container fell on the floor and I was manically scooping up the meatballs I could save before they sank through the sauce onto the floor, while exclaiming loudly, “Ooooh my meatballs!” My friends never let me live that one down 🙂 It triggers uncontrollable laughter every time we think of it.
Make a list of your “Instant Uppers” – things that make you feel good feel soothed, or laugh no matter what mood you’re in. Go to this list when you need to shift your vibe.
3. When you catch yourself being a reactor, change to being a creator
Things that trigger out upsets are marvelous logs on the fires of our loving passions! The very things that trigger us to react also motivate us to create.
For example, during the Great Depression, when people were freaking out, selling off their fortunes, and losing money – basically reacting – others were looking for opportunity and creating their fortunes.
Many people have founded companies based on complaints. One of my favorite stories is about Sara Blakely, founder of the Spanx shapewear company. She was going to be a lawyer but didn’t score well on the tests. She worked at Disney world for a bit, then as a stand-up comedian, then in sales. She couldn’t stand pantyhose but liked the top half that made her shapelier. She turned her complaint with the hose into a multi-million dollar business!
So when you have a complaint, ask yourself, “What do I want to create?” Then imagine it, feel it, look for examples of it, or dream it into existence.
In these super-charged intense energies with everyone bringing strong opinions to the surface and “all that has been hidden shall be revealed” causing the sparks to fly, it isn’t a lot of fun being a “reactor.” Even if it means developing new habits, give being a “Creator” a try. Practice high-vibing as often as you can. Happy creating!
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